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Ode to mortality…

One fine October morning, before rushing off to work,  I decided to pick up the phone and see how 2 of  my favorite old people were doing. I had wanted to tell them in person that my sister and I had bought tickets to see them over at Christmas.

And then the news struck like a lightning. 2 hours prior to my call, my grandfather was diagnosed with  stage 4 lung cancer that has metastasized to the brain.

It was so sudden, no warning, nothing…

Powerless.

Hollow.

Dark.

Sad.

Why him?

Why? Why? Why?

Of course, sometimes bad things just happen.

So, Grandaddy, this post is for you. I love you with all my heart.

September 2009

Took a hiatus from writing, focusing more on the daily life. Highlight of the month, however, was to go home and celebrate the Eid day with the family for the first time again after 8 years.

Beautiful times.

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August 2009 in recap

I’m rather busy these days to write a post, so here’s August 2009 in recap:

  1. Wonderful week-long birthday celebration. All those special people in my life helped me celebrate in their own special way: silly phone calls and messages, keeping to tradition with having family dinner up north with the J-fam, The Shuffle Club gig at the Cotton Club, the customary girly bubbly night, an absolutely delicious Mexican dinner with funny mariachi band performance, lunches and other dinners. Very nice and special and made me feel loved.
  2. Finally made my return to taiko drumming after 7 months of hiatus. Oh boy, the bloody blisters are also back. Miyauchi-sensei’s new studio is absolutely stunning and very condusive for future education.
  3. Made my way to my annual pilgrimage to Sado island to immerse myself in Kodo’s Earth Celebration. 3 days of wonderful road trips, laughter, camping, chats under Sado’s starry sky, taiko galore and harbor market foods. BLØF was a wonderful guest performer. Perfect example how music is a universal language. Their entire performance was in Dutch, yet everyone could feel the beauty of their music. And MAN they’re tall!
  4. My brother made a visit to prepare for his upcoming move to Japan. It was short and sweet, but enough to give taste on how colorful (my) life would be once he moves here to join the wife. Can’t wait!!!
  5. Achievement of the month: canyoning with Canyons at Fox Canyon, Minakami. I really should pay attention to what I’m agreeing to do sometimes. Haha. Back in March Ms.Lightbulb invited me to go do “canyoning”. I had no idea what canyoning is all about, but have heard of friends having done it before. Whoooooo boy, that was one adrenaline rush! 20meters jump, jumping through waterfalls and canyons etc. Loads of fun. Would do it again most definitely.
  6. Ramadan 1430H kicked start on August 22. Alhamdulillah. My favorite time of the year is here.
  7. Scored John Williams solo concert tickets for October 31. Our seats are only 12 rows from the stage. Sooooooooo looking forward to it.

And with this… we are moving on to September 2009. Until the next post!

As I was about to make that 20m jump at Fox Canyon, Minakami

As I was about to make that 20m jump at Fox Canyon, Minakami

My colleagues cracked me up today.

One colleague told me that he lost a bug he got his son only that morning because he underestimated the necessity of stapled plastic container. Now there is a kabuto mushi flying around his house with a curious 5 month-old-baby-girl around. Yowza! Yeah, he better get another bug before his son comes to visit again.

The day continued to be boring, with me struggling to tone down a killer natsubate… until another colleague came in through the door with a stack of dry-cleaned clothes. Like 7 shirts and 3 pairs of dress pants. Upon seeing my amused expression he declared, “Dude, project marathon, no time to go to the dry cleaner by my house, gotta bring them all the way to a place near the office.” Oh, OK, if you say so…

I wonder if such idiosyncrasies happened in other offices.

Today was mundane, but I did have a good laugh.

Laughter is the best medicine. Shoo shoo, natsubate!

You may wonder (or you may not) why it’s been so long since I write about taiko drumming. The answer to that is because I decided to take a break from it for a while.

Last year with two taiko groups, I had enjoyed so many opportunities to hit on the big drums and had nearly daily-dose of taiko practice. This had colored much of my days, leaving little for anything else to materialize.

Early this year I decided to put a halt on drumming for a bit. Amidst the economic recession in the world, the first 3 months of 2009 saw me jumping in head first into back-to-back projects. The motto at work now… take the job, you don’t know when it’s going to stop coming! A lot of nervous business people out there with the economy jolting up and down without pre-warning. Job-after-job-after-job, impossible to see the light at the end of the tunnel. This left very little time for me to have any kind of life and some drastic measures must be taken. I need some down time after all.

The first to go… time consuming group activities and commitments, to allow more time to wind down. In my case this means regular multiple taiko practice and rehearsals. As much as it’s very hard for me to give up and understanding that drumming will always be something that I’m extremely passionate about… sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

With this activity taken out, for 6 months it felt like the drum beat is going off like a background soundtrack. It’s faint and it’s quaint. Going to taiko concerts and festivals didn’t seem to cure the longing in me. And I feel like taiko deprivation is finally hitting the limit.

But the taiko gods are kind… and the work lords are also equally as kind…

In 2 weeks, I will see myself embarking on the annual pilgrimage to Kodo’s Earth Celebration. The tix are in my pockets, the companions are set, the tent is ready to be lugged. Life is good and in order again.

I may not be performing this year, but to be there to absorb everything and experience it all over again would be rewarding. I am not ready yet to go back to the big drums, but this will help. This will fulfill that large odaiko-size void in my heart.

Don-doko-don. I see you there!

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July!

Oh dear dear, I haven’t been very productive in keeping up the blog. But here goes, the hip-hop-happenings in July:

4th of July BBQ at Nagareyama in front of the onion field, grand time in the company of lovely people

A day walking around Kyoto with good ole’ Ted, attempting some philosophical thoughts, but resolving with cold beers overlooking the big river there

Escaped to the tiny island of Shiraishijima with a bunch of free souls of Kansai. A perfect combination of a road trip, entertaining discussions, playing music, cooking, contemplating, enjoying each other’s company, swimming in the sea, walking to big temple on the island, and saying hellos to the 600 inhabitants of the island. A perfect Summer bliss.

Picnicking at Yoyogi Park with lovely people. Being in the sun, happy chats, badmintons, snacks, Malibu(!), laughter, happy people, companionships.

This weekend will see me visiting some of my favorite people in Niigata. More happy catch ups, more beautiful food and more laughter.

And… I’m all sorted out to visit the Earth Celebration, too!

Ahhh, life is good. Ja!

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  1. Buy cook books, drool over the yummy looking recipes and plan recipes for months at length
  2. Buy blocks of meat and poultry and fill up the fridge for said recipes. And then cook them like there is no tomorrow
  3. Make new memory, invite new people, change the air at home
  4. Smile, laugh, dance yourself silly
  5. If you don’t feel like laughing or smiling, make facial movements that resemble smiling, what do you know you might end up smiling after all
  6. Phone your friends and listen to whatever story they’ve got to say. They love you and they’re funny. They make you laugh. Laughter is the best medicine
  7. Play some music instruments, get distracted
  8. Go out, have fun, pick up new hobbies
  9. Go shopping, buy shoes, buy new clothes or just buy something new from even a 100 yen shop.
  10. Let go and accept the reason why you’re down. It is what it is.

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Oops… I did it again!
Last weekend… Le Creuset Family Sale once more.
I had to go.
So I went.
And I bought stuff.
After frantic phone calls with a fellow foodie, contemplating the benefits of oval cast iron pot vs. shallow round cast iron pot vs. cast iron soup pot; continued with frantic texting about a certain 3-ply stainless steel skillet that CC had been wanting to get… 1.5 hours later I walked away with the following in tow:
- 2 cast iron pots (shallow round and soup pot), not available in Japan, green
- 2 square baking dish, pumpkin orange
- An assortment of gourmet spatulas, multiple colors
- An assortment of pot holders, red
- 2 small bowls in a form of a pumpkin, pumpkin orange
- 1 3-ply stainless steel skillet/fry pan, steel
Well, I have to say that the fee was steep, but they were at a handsome discounted price. So… flinch, I should not. But I do know that I need to eat in for one whole month to justify this extravagant spending!
Oops!

Last weekend… Le Creuset Family Sale once more.

I had to go.

So I went.

And I bought stuff.

After frantic phone calls with a fellow foodie, contemplating the benefits of oval cast iron pot vs. shallow round cast iron pot vs. cast iron soup pot; continued with frantic texting about a certain 3-ply stainless steel skillet that CC had been wanting to get… 1.5 hours later I walked away with the following in tow:

- 2 cast iron pots (shallow round and soup pot), not available in Japan, green

- 2 square baking dish, pumpkin orange

- An assortment of gourmet spatulas, multiple colors

- An assortment of pot holders, red

- 2 small bowls in a form of a pumpkin, pumpkin orange

- 1 3-ply stainless steel skillet/fry pan, steel

Well, I have to say that the fee was steep, but they were at a handsome discounted price. So… flinch, I should not. But I do know that I need to eat in for one whole month to justify this extravagant spending!

Oops!

But I am eternally happy…

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This post is dedicated to my little god daughter Nadya, celebrating her 5th birthday on May 24, 2009

As we were cooking and preparing the food for the birthday party, my little Nadya asked what we were going to eat. When I said, “Ayam goreng, salad, corn soup and pasta.” Her eyes widened and she squealed happily, “But they’re my favorite food!”

When we were preparing the cupcakes, “I love cupcakes! Can I help?”

When the cupcakes were finished sloppily decorated, she said “Bunda, can we name the cakes? I want to name it Pink Birthday Cupcakes!”

In the middle of  the party, she came to me  with the biggest smile on her face and said… “Bunda, thank you so much, this is the best birthday party ever.”

Upon opening her birthday present, “Bunda, I love it! Thank you!” (followed by a big hug and a kiss)

This morning when everyone was getting ready to leave for the airport, she came into my bedroom and hugged my knees,  “I will miss you. Can’t you come to Jakarta, too?”

And at the bus when I made I-Love-You sign for her from the outside, she waved, gave me a big kiss-bye and made a heart sign with her little fingers. I am taken.

I love you, BabyGirl…

**Thank you, my sweet M, for letting me have so many precious moments with BabyGirl Nadya. Thank you.

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Golden Week Past

In attempt to keep a yearly log of the things I did during the Golden Week, here is the post for 2009.

1.     April 28- 29:

Be K&K’s guest house at their beautiful home in Nagareyama. Spoiled with a lovely dinner and a top class breakfast and later on we went to IKEA where I got more linen and bed covers and a bunch of kitchen stuff. Later on we went back to town and visited The Pink Cow, where there was a shamisen performance in progress and caught up with traveling friends.

2.     April 30:

Road trip to Kasama for the big Himatsuri! I went with Mehameha and Jim. Drove nearly 300km for the day, on top of visiting the 300 something pottery booths. Burnt all my Golden Week allowance on beautiful pots and plates and whatnots. Mehameha wrote up a complete post here.

3.     May 1-3:

Another road trip to Umegashima Onsen in Shizuoka prefecture. Tagging along with my cousin’s girlfriend’s family and stayed at their beautiful log house. All we did while we were there was eating and cooking, playing games, chatting, inhale the fresh air of nature and be merry in the company of some of the happiest people I know. Also at the trip I had the privilege to meet with 77 year old grandma with the energy of a 50 year old. Her stories were ever so inspiring and if you give her the right amount of brandy or whiskey, you’re in for a ride!

4.     May 4:

Went out for a hike with CC (aka Funky Blueman) to Hakone. Well, OK, at least we attempted that at the beginning. Got derailed when CC spotted a nice looking liquor store downtown old Hakone Yumoto and we resolved by sitting at a street corner, alternating two bottles of local microbrewerry products while chatted about our earliest memories. It was a very peaceful time and hikers passed by and then we decided to go and get some lunch at a nearby soba place. At the soba place, the friendly man CC is, he began chatting with an elderly gentleman who sat at the corner of the soba shop. I joined them and latter on we discovered that the elderly gentleman was one of the founders of the soba shop. Mr. Kamiya is 100 years old (at the moment he is 99 years old, but soon he will turn 100). Such a character with stories that run deeper than any history books available. Here before us, stood a man that went through 3 generations of emperors in Japan. From the days of carriers and rickshaws to automobiles. He witnessed it all. For a person of age, his memory is sharp. Healthy as a fresh morning dew, animated as a puppy, feisty as a little kitten. I wish I could fold him and put him in a pocket and carry him everywhere. Mr. Kamiya produced a book about pottery and soba and the early days of his restaurant. He engraved the book with our names on it and all sort of information that he discovered over our chats. He gave us the book as a present to remember him by, to remind us of the delightful encounter. For that, we are forever thankful.

Finally after hours of procrastination, we headed up to a small mountain with a temple that CC had been before. The hike may have been minor, but what we experienced atop the small hill at the temple was magical. It was a Buddhist temple. The head priest for the temple was known for his musicianship with the biwa instrument (Japanese short-necked fretted lute). We meandered into the temple, admiring the extensive biwa collection, until the headpriest started joining our conversation. An avid guitarist and a biwa enthusiast, CC had lots of questions to ask. The headpriest chatted with us for a while until finally resolved to, “Would you like me to play you a tune?” As if he has to ask!
He then pulled out one of the biwas on display and began playing. Such a magical sound. The headpriest sang along to his biwa playing and finished the piece in perfect harmony. One thing that caught my attention was the giant pick that was used to play the biwa. The size was enormous and at a glimpse it seemed as if it would only be in the way of the playing, but when you watched the headpriest masterfully used it, you would then understand it. The enormous pick (professionally known as a plectra) is shaped as such because one plectra could be used only for one kind of biwa. So depending on the biwa’s head size, the plectra would vary. And it also works as a double-edged pick, a biwa musician could then maneuver two strings at once using the double edged.
After the performance was finished, we were told that the piece that he played was an old Japanese tune that is about 750 years old. Such a gem.

We wrapped the small hike with an hotspring visit nearby and later on wrapped it with a nice meal at an ‘izakaya’ nearby. A wholesome day.

5.     May 5

Visited some friends to be introduced to the newest addition in their family: Baby Corbin! Spent a couple of hours playing with the beautiful Russian Blue and later in the evening had Ted arriving from Nikko for a meal and a pleasant catch up.

6.     May 6

Spent the morning brunching at the balcony and talking about nothing and everything in general. Then we attempted a nice walk at Jindaiji area, however as Mother Nature decided not to be cooperative, we decided to go back to civilization and ate pasta lunch at the beloved Fungo.

The evening was filled with a carelessly free paella dinner, in the company of Tokyo’s finest people. Laughters and conversations in abundance, with some boogeying every now and then.

With this happy note, I hereby declare that GW2009 is one of my best. Ever.

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